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On Having a Story, Saying Yes and Living with Intention

 “Seriously, if you always put limits on what you can do, physical or anything else, it’ll spread over into the rest of your life. It’ll spread into your work, into your morality, into your entire being. There are no limits.” – Bruce Lee & John Little, The Art of Expressing the Human Body (via Joel Runyon)

As I mentioned in my last post about WDS, two messages really resonated with me as I left Portland and absorbed everything that happened: having a story and saying yes. A third that I discovered is living with intention.

On Storytelling

The first person to really hit these topics for me was  Joel Runyon of Impossible HQ during his workshop (aptly titled): “Do Something. Do Anything.” He told us the question that propelled him into the creating a list of impossible things and changing his life was, “Are you telling a good story with your life? Would anybody want to read it?

I, admittedly, don’t have much of a story and it’s probably the major thing that I need to work on. My lack of story is a lot of things… fear, insecurities, unwillingness to be vulnerable… but it’s something that I want and am ready to change. So far, I’m just a girl who quit my corporate job, found another corporate job, pays off my debt, but sometimes does cool things on the side. Riveting, I’m sure.

Having a story is clearly one of my greatest weaknesses. I think I’m a cool enough person, but would anyone else want to read my story? Not without a little work.

On Saying Yes

I took absolutely no notes during JD Roth‘s speech on the Power of Personal Transformation (luckily, he posted the transcript yesterday). JD is a man who has gone through major transformations across all areas of his life over the past several years.

The first topic up? The power of yes. JD found that he was saying no to opportunities constantly because he was “afraid of what might happen.” Then he continued:

I made a resolution. I decided that instead of saying “no” to things because I was afraid of them, I’d “just say yes”.

Saying yes is something I’ve been working on in my life already. I don’t want to be the person that says “I wish.” I don’t want to wish, I want to do. As JD said, it is the things we do that make me who we are, not what we think we do.

I don’t wish I was brave enough to go skydiving, I do it.
I don’t wish I could travel, I make it a priority and do it.
I don’t wish I could get out of debt, I work at it everyday.
I don’t wish I had more time to read, I make it.

You never know what kind of friendships might develop or new adventures await, if you would just say yes and allow new opportunities into your life. Of all things that have terrified me the past year, attending WDS is definitely one of them, but I did it. And I think it’ll be one of the greatest decisions of my life.

On Living with Intention

Another workshop, Claim Your AUTHORity, lead by Cynthia Morris of Original Impulse, helped direct me toward my values and the realization that intention living is important to me. During one exercise, we were writing down the core values to our book (or life if we so chose), and I wrote down change, independence and gratitude.

After staring at my little circle with my three words in it, I added a fourth: intention.

It struck me that I wanted to live a life intended. How awesome and ambiguous is that? Just kidding. Intentional living is simply a life ” intentionally chosen by an individual based on awareness of her/his values and fundamental beliefs” (yes, it’s from Wikipedia). Much of the past week I’ve been considering my values and fundamental beliefs and I think I know what living with intention means to me right now: to give freely, live openly and practice gratitude.

Some things I’d already managed to incorporate into my daily life without realizing it, the others will take some time.

What stories did you hear that inspired change?

 

World Domination Summit: The Magic of People and Stories

“Once in a while it really hits people that they don’t have to experience the world in the way they have been told to.”
– Alan Keightley (via Chris Guillebeau)

I felt absolutely exhausted the minute I woke up this morning. All weekend I had been running on the pure magic that was happening around me and I no longer had the stamina to sustain it.  But then a funny thing happened as the day progressed… I realized that despite how great and inspirational everything was in the moment, the magic only grew as I looked back and reflected on what exactly happened during these three days.

Despite being only the second year of the World Domination Summit, a group of  bloggers, entrepreneurs and game changers converged on Portland for three days full of unconventional speakers and workshops that invited one to think about living a remarkable life in a conventional world.

Weekend roomie & partner-in-crime

People

After hearing from attendees last year, it seemed so crazy that such incredible friendships could be forged in a matter of days, but that is exactly what happened. My weekend roomie, fellow “Make Sh*t Happen“-er, & soul sister Shannyn (of Frugal Beautiful) and I had a weekend full of playing “Runner!”, Rogue beer tasting, sushi eating and even some Bollywood dancing. We talked, took absurd amounts of photos and walked all over Portland, but I couldn’t have asked for a better person to do so with!

I also had the pleasure of spending time with Phil of PT Money and Jeff of Money Spruce, both really awesome people doing amazing things. Phil wrote about how many financial bloggers were in attendance at #wds2012, which excites me to see what the future holds for them. You know these are cool people if they’re willing to spend three days at a conference that talks about things like vulnerability, creativity, service and change in the context of our conventional world.

It wasn’t just those I spent the weekend with, it was people who you met briefly at lunch or on the street. I found my people.  I found people who didn’t expect me to live life in the way I’ve always been told it has to be lived. I found people who understand what I mean when I say, “I have no idea what I’m doing.” I found people who are doing awesome, crazy things with open hearts. Sometimes it was a little scary and intimidating, but when powerful forces within this unconventional community tell me, “It’s okay to not have everything figured out,” it feels like they get it and embrace it, not criticize me for it.

So to all the people I met this weekend who listened to my story and told me it’s okay to not know — thank you.

Don’t stop believin’!

Stories

There was such an outpouring of inspiration from the high caliber speakers, who ranged from world-class researchers into vulnerability and introversion to A-list bloggers and entrepreneurs. Speakers who spoke to our hearts, made us laugh, made us cry and, most of all, made us think.

  • Brené Brown had us dancing and singing first thing in the morning
  • Scott Harrison, founder of Charity: Water, made us reconsider service and convinced most (if not all) of us to give up our next birthdays
  • Cal Newport showed us how astonishingly wrong all the “follow your passion” advice has been over the past 20+ years
  • JD Roth, creator of Get Rich Slowly, spoke on the power of change

Throw in the incredible stories from $100 Startup and Attendees Stories forums, plus any given one of the 80+ attendee-led workshops, and it’s easy to understand how so much AWESOME could come out of one single weekend.

Of all the great messages I heard over the three days, two in particular stood out to me: To say YES and to have a good story. But I’ll save that for another post. :)

One final note today: If you’ve ever thought that there’s something more out there, I’d highly, highly encourage you to consider attending WDS next year. You never know in what way it might alter your life. Over half the tickets have already been sold to attendees, so get on the list now!!

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images: Armosa Studios

#wds2012: The Most Amazing Weekend

I spent all day yesterday contemplating what I could possibly say that would do this weekend justice. Spending three days in Portland for the World Domination Summit (WDS) was hands down one of the best things I’ve ever done.

My story starts last October when I read a book called The Art of Non-Conformity by Chris Guillebeau. I’ve been following Chris’ blog for several years prior and had been sitting on the book for a year. Once I read it, I knew how profoundly his message resonated with me. The book absolutely changed my life. I starting doing things I never thought I’d do… things that absolutely terrified me and pushed me far outside of the little comfort bubble within the bubble of what I thought was possible.

Fast forward to January when an extra 30 tickets to the long sold-out WDS were released. After getting one of the precious few into my basket, I had exactly 15 minutes to decide if I was going to do this thing that terrified me (going to a conference alone) or if I was going to not do it… It took the entire 15 minutes, but I made a choice.

“Regret for the things we did can be tempered by time; it is regret for the things we did not do that is inconsolable.” – Sydney J. Harris

I went in with no expectations (aside from it being totally awesome) and came out astounded by the amazing people who came together this weekend. Absolutely gorgeous summer weekend I might add. Did the lighting bolt of genius give me a new idea or set me on my path? No and that’s okay. I still have no clue what I’m doing but I feel more comfortable than ever with that fact. I don’t need to know it all right now. It’s okay to be a wanderer.

Stay tuned for more goodness from the weekend once I collect my thoughts and get them on paper… the master set of photos is here if you can’t wait to see more!

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images: Amarosa Studios

#WDS2012

Yesterday I bought one of the last available tickets to this year’s World Domination Summit.  I can’t even being to explain the feelings running through me – fear, hope, excitement, joy, terror, thrill… You name it, I’m probably feeling it.

I’ve often felt that life is passing me by.  That I’m an introvert who is, often, very afraid to do anything new.  But at the same time, I’ve felt like I’m stuck living a life that I’m not cut out for.  That I’m mired down in material things instead of experiences.

Maybe I’m not moving fast enough, but I’m making movement.  And yesterday, as 80 last minute tickets were released for #WDS2012, I took a plunge and bought one.  How I’m going to get there and where I’m staying still remains to be determined, but I can’t WAIT to spend the weekend with 500 forward thinkers and trailblazers in the beautiful city of Portland.  I might not know where I’m heading yet, but I can’t wait to find out!