Tomorrow we leave Mongolia. That leaves less a month and four more countries before we finally head back to the States. It’s been a long road home and has made me all the more ready to get there. But I have learned a lot along the way.
Observations from the last two months:
- Travel more slowly
We decided to do a whirlwind tour of eleven countries in 14 weeks, knowing full well that it’s likely the only time this will happen. Now, eleven weeks in I can say it is too fast for us.
- Good planning can prevent a lot of heartache
I’m a planner. I can’t just “wing it,” hopping around the world and hoping things work out. But I did a lot of research before we left and it has helped prevent a lot of heartache. When we couldn’t get on the train from Agra, we took a bus instead. I know how much a cab fare to the airport costs, so when a taxi driver takes us on a joy ride, I can call him out on it.
- Humans really are amazing
We have met some incredible people over the course of this trip. People who have welcomed us into our homes or made sure we were taken care of. We’ve also seen incredible and terrible things of which humans are capable, but also the resiliency that people have. We are pretty incredible.
- The world has changed
A lot has changed since I went to Ethiopia thirty months ago. I’m constantly surprised by cell phones mostly, but also the internet. I’m not entirely sure if it’s just that the world has changed, or if it’s that I’m finally noticing things I hadn’t before.
- The value of money
When you live on a very limited budget for 27 months, it can be hard to spend money again. This trip has been in good in that it’s slowly eased me into the idea that everything costs money. Potatoes are never going to cost 25 cents a kilo (2.2 lbs) again, hotels will never be $10 for a private room with hot shower and free wifi and don’t get me started on clothes. That everything seems expensive now just something I have to accept. It’s definitely a process throughout this trip (“That’s $15!! For one entree!”) and I am sure it will continue to be a process over the coming months.
- Travel is good for relationships
Ryan and I have learned so much more about each other after two months on the road than we might have at home. Full-time travel is different from both our life in Ethiopia and will be different from our life in the States. It’s made me more excited than ever to share my life with him!