give freely love openly practice gratitude
“What’s that? A proverb?” my habesha friend asked last week, after spotting the above phrase on my wall when he stopped by to translate something for me.

I laughed. “Something like that.”

Give freely, love openly, practice gratitude.

I wrote these words about five months ago in an unfinished post, a post that had some of the most raw and open words I’ve ever written. After rediscovering them last week, I realized that these are the words that describe how I want to live the next year of my life.

These words hang on my wall, right next to my bedroom door. The intention is sprinkled throughout my 2013 planning—my goals, my hopes, my dreams and my fears. My career and location are exactly where I need to be right now, but my soul still yearns to grow.

“Things do not change; we change.” – Henry David Thoreau

Just Be Happy

“Now and then it’s good to pause in our pursuit of happiness and just be happy.”
-Guillaume Apollinaire


With Glittering Eyes

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“And above all, watch with glittering eyes the world around you because the greatest secrets are always hidden in the most unlikely places. Those who don’t believe in magic will never find it.” – Roald Dahl

World Domination Summit: The Magic of People and Stories

“Once in a while it really hits people that they don’t have to experience the world in the way they have been told to.”
– Alan Keightley (via Chris Guillebeau)

I felt absolutely exhausted the minute I woke up this morning. All weekend I had been running on the pure magic that was happening around me and I no longer had the stamina to sustain it.  But then a funny thing happened as the day progressed… I realized that despite how great and inspirational everything was in the moment, the magic only grew as I looked back and reflected on what exactly happened during these three days.

Despite being only the second year of the World Domination Summit, a group of  bloggers, entrepreneurs and game changers converged on Portland for three days full of unconventional speakers and workshops that invited one to think about living a remarkable life in a conventional world.

Weekend roomie & partner-in-crime


After hearing from attendees last year, it seemed so crazy that such incredible friendships could be forged in a matter of days, but that is exactly what happened. My weekend roomie, fellow “Make Sh*t Happen“-er, & soul sister Shannyn (of Frugal Beautiful) and I had a weekend full of playing “Runner!”, Rogue beer tasting, sushi eating and even some Bollywood dancing. We talked, took absurd amounts of photos and walked all over Portland, but I couldn’t have asked for a better person to do so with!

I also had the pleasure of spending time with Phil of PT Money and Jeff of Money Spruce, both really awesome people doing amazing things. Phil wrote about how many financial bloggers were in attendance at #wds2012, which excites me to see what the future holds for them. You know these are cool people if they’re willing to spend three days at a conference that talks about things like vulnerability, creativity, service and change in the context of our conventional world.

It wasn’t just those I spent the weekend with, it was people who you met briefly at lunch or on the street. I found my people.  I found people who didn’t expect me to live life in the way I’ve always been told it has to be lived. I found people who understand what I mean when I say, “I have no idea what I’m doing.” I found people who are doing awesome, crazy things with open hearts. Sometimes it was a little scary and intimidating, but when powerful forces within this unconventional community tell me, “It’s okay to not have everything figured out,” it feels like they get it and embrace it, not criticize me for it.

So to all the people I met this weekend who listened to my story and told me it’s okay to not know — thank you.

Don’t stop believin’!


There was such an outpouring of inspiration from the high caliber speakers, who ranged from world-class researchers into vulnerability and introversion to A-list bloggers and entrepreneurs. Speakers who spoke to our hearts, made us laugh, made us cry and, most of all, made us think.

  • Brené Brown had us dancing and singing first thing in the morning
  • Scott Harrison, founder of Charity: Water, made us reconsider service and convinced most (if not all) of us to give up our next birthdays
  • Cal Newport showed us how astonishingly wrong all the “follow your passion” advice has been over the past 20+ years
  • JD Roth, creator of Get Rich Slowly, spoke on the power of change

Throw in the incredible stories from $100 Startup and Attendees Stories forums, plus any given one of the 80+ attendee-led workshops, and it’s easy to understand how so much AWESOME could come out of one single weekend.

Of all the great messages I heard over the three days, two in particular stood out to me: To say YES and to have a good story. But I’ll save that for another post. 🙂

One final note today: If you’ve ever thought that there’s something more out there, I’d highly, highly encourage you to consider attending WDS next year. You never know in what way it might alter your life. Over half the tickets have already been sold to attendees, so get on the list now!!


images: Armosa Studios

#wds2012: The Most Amazing Weekend

I spent all day yesterday contemplating what I could possibly say that would do this weekend justice. Spending three days in Portland for the World Domination Summit (WDS) was hands down one of the best things I’ve ever done.

My story starts last October when I read a book called The Art of Non-Conformity by Chris Guillebeau. I’ve been following Chris’ blog for several years prior and had been sitting on the book for a year. Once I read it, I knew how profoundly his message resonated with me. The book absolutely changed my life. I starting doing things I never thought I’d do… things that absolutely terrified me and pushed me far outside of the little comfort bubble within the bubble of what I thought was possible.

Fast forward to January when an extra 30 tickets to the long sold-out WDS were released. After getting one of the precious few into my basket, I had exactly 15 minutes to decide if I was going to do this thing that terrified me (going to a conference alone) or if I was going to not do it… It took the entire 15 minutes, but I made a choice.

“Regret for the things we did can be tempered by time; it is regret for the things we did not do that is inconsolable.” – Sydney J. Harris

I went in with no expectations (aside from it being totally awesome) and came out astounded by the amazing people who came together this weekend. Absolutely gorgeous summer weekend I might add. Did the lighting bolt of genius give me a new idea or set me on my path? No and that’s okay. I still have no clue what I’m doing but I feel more comfortable than ever with that fact. I don’t need to know it all right now. It’s okay to be a wanderer.

Stay tuned for more goodness from the weekend once I collect my thoughts and get them on paper… the master set of photos is here if you can’t wait to see more!


images: Amarosa Studios